You have heard them all,
“Like attracts Like,” “Attract more fies with honey than vinegar,”
“You attract what you ARE, not what you want,”
“If you want great, be great!”
You must be that which you desire. There’s no point in an unloving person going on about their inability to find a partner. They’re doomed to endless frustration because they don’t recognize the perfect match when it appears. That loving person could be right there, right now, but it is too foreign to them, too different from themselves, even if it is exactly what they want. The unloving person continues to blame bad luck or a series of external factors for their not having a loving relationship.
How To Attract Love To Your Life
Love can only be attracted by and returned by love. The best advice I can give for attracting and maintaining loving, heart-connected relationships, is to be what it is that you want to attract. Most relationships that fail are based on one or both of the partners feeling as if their freedom has been compromised in some way. Heart-connected partnerships, on the other hand, are never about making another person feel inferior or ignored in any way. The term heart connected simply means that the energy holding the two of you together is in close harmony with the your true heart-felt desires.
Deliberately Attract the Loving Partner You Want
If you are not clear about what you want, how will you know if it walked up to you and said hello? Here are a few things you should include as you begin to get clear about your ideal partner:
- Be clear about what you want, and become that.
- Be deliberate in how you create this vision.
- Don’t simply look at surface characteristics, but include how you want them to behave, even when the chips are down.
- How does your heart feel when you are with them.
- How does the touch of their hand make you feel?
- When you touch them, how does it make them feel, how does it make you feel together?
- Be clear, and understand how it will feel in your body and heart when you have it.
Affirm That Love is On Its Way
Understand that as you change, and become more connected to what you want, you will begin to see change in your life. People with behave differently, opportunities will become available, ideas and inspiration will come clearly to you, all these things are proof that you are on the right path to what you want. When you have come down the path to where you partner is waiting for you, you will know them.
Love Yourself First
If you do not love yourself, you will not know what to expect (even demand) from others you want to love you. If you do not know the feeling of love from your Source, you will not be familiar with the way unconditional love feels, and may tend to settle for
“conditional love” or possessive love, instead. If a friendship or partnership requires submission of your personality, your inner nature and dignity, it’s simply wrong. When you truly know what it is to love, as you’re loved by your Source, you won’t experience the kind of pain you did in the past when your love was unnoticed or rejected. You’re connected to this Source of love at all times. Know this. Think this way, feel this way, and you’ll soon act this way. And all that you think, feel, and do will be reciprocated in exactly the same fashion. Believe it or not, this principle of the right person showing up has been in place forever. It’s only your ego that’s kept you from seeing it clearly.
These four steps are key when you are looking to find a healthy, loving, heart-connected love. Because a relationship that is based in love, real love, can be nothing other than heat-connected and healthy. I teach these steps in details to my Attract Healthy Love Formula program clients, and when that light bulb goes off, and they understand how to make that happen – Look out – it is life changing!